Nov 15, 20212 min readActive ListeningActive listening is so much more than just hearing the words that someone has to say. Hearing the person behind the words allows us to...
Oct 20, 20214 min readDifficult ConversationsDifficult conversations are exactly that. Difficult. We often resist them or procrastinate about having them. We may go as far as to...
Sep 13, 20213 min readKindness MattersBe Kind. Two words that we have often heard spoken in this country. They are an important part of New Zealand’s covid brand. Some might...
Jul 27, 20212 min readLoud and quiet angerAnger is a natural consequence of not getting what we want and need. It is a response to an injustice, real or imagined. It is a way of...
Jul 27, 20212 min readImagine an icebergIn previous articles I have referred to a set of concerns that we are all share. They are the need for acknowledgement, belonging,...
May 24, 20212 min readAnger tells our story of painWe have all experienced anger at some time in our lives. An unjust sandpit moment, the parental wrath of a teen missing curfew, the...
May 24, 20212 min readConflict can exist in the absence of a dispute.Most of us fear conflict and do our best to avoid it. Sometimes this can be to the detriment of expressing our true feelings or voicing...
Nov 30, 20202 min readMagic in the Circle – a reflectionI sit and wait. Seven empty chairs wait with me. Soon they will be filled by a leadership team that has lost their will to lead. A single...